Friday, February 7, 2014

Ready for the Real World


So, we’ve sent our daughter off to college. We’ve watched her board a plane for a foreign country by herself twice. We’ve moved her from dorm to sorority house to apartment.
This week, I drove half-way across the U.S. with her to move her again. This time, it seems for real. She’s starting a job in another state, and we probably won’t see her for several months.
On one hand, it’s exciting to see her start her life and branch off on her own. On the other hand, it seems so official. This time, it feels like she’s really left home. For good.

I realize this isn’t unique. But it is a milestone. It’s more letting go. It’s a big step for her, but also for us as parents. Loud and clear, it’s a sign that we’re getting older. Got that one, for sure. After two solid days in the car, and another day of moving in and errands, I could hardly move at all.
It’s also confirmation that we did our job! She’s confident. She’s gainfully employed – with a paycheck and benefits. This is very exciting. I guess that while it’s a little bit scary to leave her, it’s also a proud mommy moment. :-)  She’s ready for the real world!

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