Thursday, October 24, 2013

No farting, please . . . I can smell again!


So this morning I’m brushing my teeth, and I kept thinking I was getting a funky taste. Puzzled, I checked the toothpaste tube and the toothbrush trying to figure out what strange substance I was ingesting. Took me a minute to realize it wasn’t a taste at all – it was a scent. And I smelled it!!

This may seem a strange topic, but it’s been months since I’ve smelled anything! You see, I’m plagued with sinus issues. I’ve had surgery, but this fall has been rough. For a couple of weeks I couldn’t breathe, let alone smell. I wasn’t particularly concerned about the smell part. But I do like to sleep, and it’s hard to get sleep when you can’t breathe.
Thank you, Prednisone.

After a few days of drug therapy, the polyps have shrunk, and I’ve regained a little sense of smell. But I have to say, in some respects I did not mind not smelling. When my sister and I were driving back from Colorado a couple of months ago and there was a dead skunk on the side of the road, she nearly gagged, while I was completely oblivious. And when my son and I had to park behind a restaurant and then walk past the dumpsters? He made fake choking sounds and complained as if the stench was going to be the end of him. I was unfazed.

Yes, I missed being able to smell coffee and tea and other good stuff. I was shopping with a friend last week, and she kept holding out jars of tea and candles for me to smell. Nope. Nada. Of course, I’m old enough to know what things smell like. I know I like the scent of vanilla and grapefruit, so I can still buy a candle or body lotion and know what I’m getting.

Unfortunately, there are pros and cons. Yes, I can now smell my morning tea and my lotion, but I can also smell . . . the trash, pizza left in a box overnight, son’s sweaty socks, and yes, farts. Oh, the farts. Don’t even get me started . . .

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

I love parent/teacher conferences!


Parent/Teacher Conferences. Do you enjoy them? Dread them? Ignore them?

I just got home from what was most likely my last parent/teacher conference ever. Yes! *pumps fist.
I’ve not missed any conferences for either of my kids. It’s not that they have a lot of problems or need help, or I really need to discuss some issue with their teachers. In fact, my son brought home a straight-A report card a few days ago.

So why would I bother going to conferences? Because it’s nice to hear the good stuff. It’s nice to hear from seven different teachers that he’s a great kid, that he’s polite and respectful, that he participates in class and makes their jobs more enjoyable. Why wouldn’t I want to hear that?!

What gets me is how many parents don’t go to conferences. Of course, some people will have a conflict, but some parents simply choose not to go. Once the kids are in high school there really aren’t that many opportunities for face-time with teachers. I’m not hanging around at the school. There aren’t room parents anymore. I just don’t have a reason to be there, so I don’t get to see my kid in action in a classroom or see how he interacts with other students and teachers.

The fact is, it’s great to get the validation that my kid is well-liked and that even though he’s a slob at home or giving me teenaged attitude, at school he’s someone I can be proud of. I love getting confirmation that he really is growing into a mature, thoughtful, decent human being! Whew! Plus, I don’t want my only interaction with a teacher to be a complaint or a problem. If a problem does arise, and we’ve already met and chatted informally, it seems that it’d be much easier to resolve the issue if some rapport has already been established.

In our district, we have conferences only two times a year, once in fall semester, and once in the spring. But he’s a senior this year. By the time conferences roll around second semester, he’s almost out of there. Colleges have already made their decisions. And we’ll probably all have a serious case of senioritis. I’m thinking I can skip spring conferences. That’s the plan. But as I write this, I wonder . . . Will I miss an opportunity? Will I regret missing that last chance to hear how great my kid is? Will I need that boost to calm my nerves before sending him off to college?

We’ll see. Maybe I’ll keep that date on the calendar. Just in case.

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Beyond my Blog!

That last post was picked up by Digital Book Today and featured on their site! Check there if you want to join the conversation about book clubs! http://digitalbooktoday.com/2013/09/28/book-club-dos-donts/#comment-34348